If you want to find a beautiful Russian bride, you must know how to write letters to attract single Russian ladies. This is the most important first step, you must remember the art of writing love letters. Every Russian woman dreams about a Real gentleman who will treat her like a lady. In your letters you should show her that you can be that special man she is waiting for.

 

The first letter that you write shouldn't be too long. One and a half to two pages should be sufficient. Write more than one line. "Liked your profile... want to chat?" This may be the most commonly-sent message on a dating website... and the most ignored. You need to say something more to get her attention. Make sure you mention the interests that she has in her profile, especially the ones that truly interest you.

 

Divide a letter into the following parts:

 

Remember, this letter should be very personal, about her only. Write a greeting with her name. Never write just "hi" without her name. It will show that you write the same letter to many women.

We recommend writing a general template of a first message, but you have to personalize it for each person you contact. No one wants to think they just received a form letter.

 

Write a few words about her and why she has drawn your attention. Don't forget to make compliments.

 

Tell her about your plans and what you expect of your correspondence. Write a line about what you have in common and why you think could be a great couple. For instance, if she has a child tell her you're interested in making a complete family. Try not to write about controversial topics like politics or religion. These topics can be discussed further down the line. Also avoid writing about your good or bad past relationships; this is not the place or time to be writing about this. Think of this first letter like a first date. Think of all the things you might tell a lady about yourself or ask of her on a first date.

Ask her questions about her family, her job or her friends. If you show a genuine interest in her life you will stand out from the other men who send her letters.

 

Make a friendly closing. Add your wishes and tell her you would like to read her reply. Then place your name.

 

Send her a picture of yourself if you can. It should be current and only have you in the picture. Sending a picture will save time as she can see straight away if she is attracted to you. Don't be shy or embarrassed about sending your photo. The follow up letters will be much easier to write since you already broke the ice.

Never send her pictures of you in swimming trunks or posing in the gym. Her possible reaction is:

- Couldn't he put on a shirt?

- He must be a pervert! Does he want to marry or just have fun?

 

Russian women like well groomed men but not those who find themselves more attractive than their lady. A man wearing a suit or smart clothing will be seen to be respectable and serious. However, these are extremes. Remember that your smile and eyes should be seen well but your body should be covered with appropriate clothes.

 

Never ask your girl to send you her picture in bikini. This will give her the impression that you are only looking for one thing.

 

 

You will never find the right lady if you:

 

-         Lie about your age. Be realistic about the age of woman you are looking for. Sixty year old men rarely find lasting love with twenty year old girls. If you like those funny stories of a young woman marrying an old man and giving him some poison - find an 18-year-old and have fun! But remember: most scams involve younger women and older, besotted, men.

 

-         Expect her to come to you in your country at her expense after a few days' correspondence. Show her respect and build a relationship through correspondence and phone calls first. Only meet when you're sure.

 

-         Lead her on for many months, promising to come very soon. Don't play games with ladies emotions.

 

-         Arriving in Russia, try to live in her apartment in order to save on accommodation costs. It's much better to stay in a rented apartment or hotel. You will have somewhere to go if things don't work out or you need your own space.

 

 

Be honest with women and with yourself; have realistic expectations!

·        Personalization is most important;

·        Make compliments;

·        Be friendly and honest!

 

We recommend that calling your lady should be done after a few letters. Most of the ladies would feel a bit nervous if you called just after the first or second letters. You could always ask her if she would mind receiving a call from you. Each situation is different.

 

And please remember, your first letter is translated free with your membership. Additional letters are priced competitively.

 

We hope the information above helps you with your first letter, but remember as a member help is only a call away.